…On Change…
Posted by Allison Mack | Filed under Thoughts
Okay, so in case you haven’t noticed, my site has changed! I love it! I think it is beautiful. So, I have decided to take this week’s blog and focus on change and the beauty of change; hence the two amazing quotes I am using this week as the inspiration. I am so totally in love with the phrase Mr. Cohen used, “in movement there is life, and in change there is power“. I just want to stand up and cheer when I read that! So often I get stuck in what I think is predictable and certain, like in some way that makes me more safe or more happy! What a ridiculous lie to tell myself! The truth of the matter is that I am only limiting my experience of my life! I want to be as full and rich and… and exciting as possible and if I really want to attain this goal I need to stretch. I need to change. The nessessity for taking risk is so huge; I can’t believe that I am only just recognizing. I think so often I get stuck in the same old same old because it feels “safe” and comfortable, but what a horrible theft from me!
Really, you have one shot at this! Why not make the most of it! I am using tons of “!” because I really want to express my excitment and passion for this concept!!!!!
Life is about living, not sitting, sleeping, coasting, and comforting! It’s about failure, up and down, forward and back… all the above! A great friend of mine was telling me about an amazing man she heard speak, and he was saying that when you go to see a film, the most exciting parts are when the characters are going through the most change. In essence, this is when the characters are going through the most struggle. Why would we ever want to cut out the most exciting parts of our life?
Ahh! How fun!
Ciao for now!
Allison
Tags: Abraham Lincoln, Alan Cohen, Change, Choices, Learning
149 Responses to “…On Change…”
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Tabby Says:
September 25th, 2007 at 11:32 pmChange is good. Nothing profound to say beyond that, but then I’ve got the flu, so my head in the other room. The new pictures are so beautiful and are so exciting! Thanks for doing through the new shoot for us!
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Sholim Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 1:00 amAllison, I love your new photos, you look so beautiful, never looked better!!!
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Cherry Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 1:24 amAllison, I am a huge fan of yours and this is the first time I have responded on this blog. I love reading your blog. You are so open and I think it helps to know someone in your line of work is just like the rest of us. I am currently going through change myself and wonder what the heck am I doing! I am too old for this! I am 47 years old and times of change are still happening. You’d think after the kids were grown, I’d be done. LOL! I am currently in a season of life where I am trying to decide what I want to do when I grow up! Hang in there, hon! You will be so glad you did. Embrace change. It is always good and always painful.
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Marcel Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 1:28 amHi Allison,
This weeks blog needs no further comment, everything is said and understood.
Yesterday a friend of mine concluded her professional training on the Conservatory of Rotterdam with a final song, she wrote herself, which is all about eternal new beginnings. About jumping inside new circles all the time. Beside her beautiful singing the lyrics touched me.
I agree, every second of life is about jump starting into new experiences, without hesitating or cludging on to the known and save. It’s about exploring, enduring and enjoying growth.
Maybe a drastic contrast, but have you ever seen how people, when they enter the final stage of their life tend be only busy with “sitting, sleeping, coasting, and comforting”. Its then when their (outer and therefore inner) cicle of life get smaller and smaller. Until there is only the point of stopping to circle or evolve.I hope you’ll find lots and lots of opportunities to jump (be careful in your trailer
)affectionally, a fan from Amsterdam
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Allie Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 2:08 amWow! I really like the new layout! It’s lovely! I totally agree with your blog, life isn’t about playing it safe, we were made to live for so much more, and today is all we really have. (Wow, I just used 2 switchfoot quotes in one sentence…) Anyways I wish you many exciting adventures ahead and hope that you leap at the chance to take them! (that sounded a lot less cheesy in my head.)
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Robin Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 3:31 amHi Allison,
Change..It’s happening every second of every day, I guess we really should embrace it and enjoy the ride..after all we can’t stop things changing ..and nor should we!
I’ve often wondered how actors like yourself and the rest of the cast get “in the moment” of a scene from a written script and translate that to the screen with such conviction!
Change..the theme of your blog really relates to the week i’ve had as my Dad was rushed to hospital last week and is to have a triple by-pass operation on his heart this coming week, however I’ve tried to look at it in a positive way as at leat the doctors know of a problem and can hopefully fix it and my dad can get on with living his life!..but life in my family really is about to CHANGE!
I’ve also been weighing up my options as to a CHANGE in career, as I’m now 30 and have had more career paths that I dare mention..I really am a Jack of all trades and master of none.I just tend to get bored in doing the same thing for ever and have moved on from many a respected job with a good pension and benefits.
This has led to many comments form my friends and family about the direction I am taking but my own view is that I live in the here and now not when i’m 65 plus drawing a pension (after all you never know when your curtain is going to fall). Yes it’s very risky but then again isn’t life one big RISK, all I really want is to have fun in the what I do each day and make the people that I share my day with happy!
Anyway thanks for reading and I hope you all have a great week!
Also, I’m very impressed with the new design on your site..well done to the people behind the scenes!
Robin
England
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Aysha Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 3:49 amHey Allison,
I just love the new layout and the gorgeous pic of you on the right!
Your blog couldn’t have come at a better time because I am going through some big changes, and my life path seems uncertain of which direction it will go. I just recently graduated from college, and I didn’t realize that I had grown so accustomed to the daily routines and the rhythm of school. I grew so attached to the people, the city (Chicago), my apartment, and my courses that I feel like now I am small fish in a big pond all over again. It happened when I transitioned from high school to college, and I feel the same way now. Being a college student became a large part of my identity and now I feel so lost.
I have always had one career in mind which was to pursue the medical field. I always imagined myself with a white coat and a stethoscope ever since I was five. Some obstacles have come in the way of that goal and I will not bore you with the details. In sum, I need more schooling before I can have a solid candidacy into med school because my science GPA isn’t high enough. It’s all a game of numbers!
Look at me! I am complaining over something so trivial and small compared to what others go through. I am very thankful for all the experiences that I have had in my life, no doubt. I just hate this phase of uncertainty, of not knowing if med schools will accept me and what other career I would pursue if I don’t get in.
I guess I shouldn’t lose hope, and hope can be such a powerful tool in life if we harness it from within.
Speaking of hope, I just read an inspirational book called “The Anatomy of Hope” by Dr. Jerome Groopman. I highly recommend it to you because Dr. Groopman talks about how people truly prevail with authentic hope and how it affects their health.
Allison, I can’t thank you enough for sharing your thoughts and for also letting us vent to you! It’s so therapeutic!
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peter Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 4:29 amI’ll write this in two languages, polish ang eneglish;
pl: Hej pozdrowienia z Polski! Åšwietny blog! Pewnie nie rozumiesz tego co pisze, ale ja rozumiem angielski
Å»ycie na fulla, masz racje! eng: Hey, greetings from Poland. Cool blog. Sorry for my english, it’s not excellen, I know
You have right about full of life!
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DavidHayes1956 Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 4:34 amWhat? No log in? Maybe I didn’t find it yet.
I’m running late for work again. I am in the enthropy stage of my life where I have everything to do and no energy to do … as opposed to the beginnings when there was all the energy in the world and no clue what to do with it.
I can only give you a hint of what I might write about later today. Ever the contrarian, I have learned that the only thing constant these days IS change. Things have to change. When I was five years old, I got very upset because my Mother had changed brands of breakfast cereal she bought for me. She had to point out that it was the same thing with a new box design. I wondered why they would do something like that. Brand names DIDN’T change. Logos DIDN’T change. I was learning the alphabet of life and here the things I was learning weren’t true anymore. But I grew up when things didn’t change simply for the sake of change. I think I was fortunate. Now everything changes. Now even people’s parent’s change: “Say hello to your new Mother! You will visit your old Mother on weekends, but she will have a new nose and larger breasts and a different husband who will be your other father.” NOOOOOO! Today, the challenge isn’t to change. The challenge is to see the value in the tried and true. The greatest inheritance we have is the experience of out forefathers and foremothers. They learned how to not get burned so that we didn’t have to. It’s the old cliche of throwing out the baby with the bath water. KNOW what you are throwing away!
Maybe I should leave it there. I have to anyway … at least for the moment.
Take Care,
David
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PMD Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 5:36 amHey Allison:
Change is inevitable in life—that’s always been something I’ve remembered, from doing something different from day to day, or learning something different from day to day.
I know that sometimes you can feel so safe you don’t want to leave or change but you have to be bold and do it. And if you make a mistake, you learn from it. And people will make mistakes—I did in my last post—I meant Josh from the West Wing; not John. :: heehee :: Like the first VP was a Humorous character—not!
Small mistake but easily rectified. : ) Another small mistake was this piece I did where I had the character pregnant in the middle of the ceremony—getting pregnant, I mean. I mean I know the person she was about to marry was good but not that good. It was supposed to be the first year of their marriage and I have since fixed it but ironically, I don’t think anybody noticed. It was my first series of pieces so, it was okay to make it. However, I do one once in a while—not so big, and that’s going to happen in the future too. And I’m okay with that—I’ll just do a small change and that’s that. And learn from my mistates.
Taking a leap away from what you feel is safe can he scary and exhilerating. But you can’t let fear stop you you never leave. I know of a favorite actor of mine who does this well—change. He does a good guy role and then a bad guy role and intersperces them in his work life. And you know; he does all roles very well. I enjoy his presense on screen—good/bad, I root for him as the good guy—I look forward to his demise as the bad.
I know for myself that change is enevitable and if it’s good, I’ll go along—if it’s bad, I will be upset and then deal with it later as a slightly possitive move—to help other’s through that change, mostly. And I can tell you—when I post a piece in a new place or even post a piece I put my heart in, I am so nervous—I just sit there, waiting for a response and then when I get one, I heave a sigh of relief, answer it, and go onto a new one. I’m almost finished with a new one and I tell you, this will be a first for the subject and am I nervous—heck yes. But I’ve got faith in my friends to see me through this.
Allison, I love the new set up. Now off to get ready for the changes awaiting me today.
Peggy
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Jimmy Valentime Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 6:11 amWhat do you want to change ?
What do you want you to do different ?
I hope this means you will pursue writing more seriously…
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Mark C.(Potsy) Potts Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 6:11 amHi-ya,
Change is one constant in the universe. Like I tell my Son and the kids I counsel, even though we might seemingly be sitting still, there is an enormous amount of change. The Moon spins around the Earth, while the Earth spins and circles the Sun, the Solar System is moving about the Galaxy, and the Galaxy is moving about the Universe. Change.
Change is also the ability to use your talents to the max and strive to do better. That is how we grow. Even after we grow up (and sometimes out) we still are growing mentally and spiritually. We take the best of ourselves to help others and hopefully they can strive to achieve their goals and sometimes pass them.
Even when we research the past we’re discovering new things, that’s change. Sometimes we discover new things about ourselves, that’s change. Sometimes we discover new things about those around us, that’s change. What we try to do is make it a change for the better. Sometimes too many people allow stagnation or to make negative choices in their changes, thus hurting the people that we can affect. That is stupid change.
I’ve been pushing through my own changes, either in life, work, or in hobbies. I hit alot of roablocks, but for once I’m not letting them even try to slow me down. I’ve lost alot in the last few years, now I’m rebuilding what I lost and am trying to save my jobs, this Country, and this World. (Sounds nuts, but I really am). One person can have a great affect on the World I have learned.
Peace,
Mark
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Kathy Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 6:29 amHi Allison,
The new site looks just beautiful:)
And I have to admit that this quote has special meaning for me: I was just laid off from my job, so I now have to go job-hunting, and I ‘ve been avoiding it because I’m scared of change. I know I have to find a new job–you have to earn money in order to live, pay bills, eat
–but it is still terrifying.The two quotes about change have inspired me to start working on my resume and looking for a new path in life–THANKS
:)
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Italo Giovani Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 6:29 amWonderful new blog!!!!
I found really interesting the way you share your thoughts with us. Thanks!!! Keep changing, but never change you great smile!!!Italo Giovani
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John Dixon Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 6:40 amHowdy Alison
Just wanna say that i came accross your website your website is fab. to be honest, i found it by accident but when i so your pic and the your thoughts, i was going to press ‘back’ to look up other websites. but when i began reading, i found myself drawn in.
i am an actor wannabe trying to find a way into the entertainment business. i passed my driving test last may after spending four years pursuing it thinking that without a licence, nobody would take me on no matter how good my auditions would go. after passing my test i suddenly began having epileptic fits. i was suddenly diagnosed two weeks ago and instead of getting upset, i was angry and fustrated thinking that every attempt in persuing my goals in life has to have an obsticle i can’t overcome so you can imagine that the things had to say had more of a meaning to me.
i look farward to hearing more of your thoughts in the future
Yippee Kai Yay.
john
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Patricia Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 7:20 amHi Allison!!!!
I simply love it the yours new site!!! Change is always a good thing if us to take to enjoyed it!!! like that you sayed ” The life is about living!!!!! This is the best bless in our lives!!!!
Kisses for you and sorry about my english!!kkkkkk…
CIAO!!
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Jeremy Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 7:41 amIt’s one thing to embrace change for the renewal it brings and quite another to pursue change simply for the novelty. So many elements of our society are pushing change to the point that it is negatively affecting our lives and dividing us from each other as people. Obsession with change is destroying our environment, diluting our culture and marginalizing those that do not or cannot fit the ever shifting paradigms.
It’s important that we master change and not become slaves to it. Let’s not throw away the richness of the past and the present for some vague promise of the future.
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Emily Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 7:46 amChange is the living in life.Everything you say is so very true,security is what holds us back.With security we do not fail,yet we do not suceed,we remain in a world that is in a constent hiatus.Life is about seeking happiness,but in order to do so we must first learn what it is through hardships,pain can’t be avoided.SO why not take the wild leap?!Any which way you go, you will face you ups and downs,but in the end it’s worth it!Funny that this is your blog topic, because I went to look at an art college i’m considering and it all hit me at once!I’m going to be leaving Everything I know and love to find out just exactly who I am!Scary much?But in the end it will be worth it,because hopefully I can find my life and live it!Thanks for an awesome blog,it has really helped me put things in perspective!
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Timothy Rose Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 8:14 amChange for Change sake is not always a good thing but with the objective being to have a more fulfilling experience… that is worth pursuing. After all… “It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent that survives. It is the one that is the most adaptable to change.â€
So power to you…
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bourdieu Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 8:25 amTry Marshall Berman’s brilliant book: “All That Is Solid Melts Into Air: The Experience of Modernity”. (1982) New York: Penguin Books, 1988.
Or try the paragraph from The Communist Manifesto by Karl Marx from 1848 from which Berman took his title:
“Constant revolutionizing of production, uninterrupted disturbance of all social conditions, everlasting uncertainty and agitation distinguish the bourgeois epoch from all earlier ones. All fixed, fast frozen relations, with their train of ancient and venerable prejudices and opinions, are swept away, all new-formed ones become antiquated before they can ossify. All that is solid melts into air, all that is holy is profaned, and man is at last compelled to face with sober senses his real condition of life and his relations with his kind. The need of a constantly expanding market for its products chases the bourgeoisie over the entire surface of the globe. It must nestle everywhere, settle everywhere, establish connections everywhere.”
Have a nice day.
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Kally Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 8:44 amHello Allison. It’s so good to see you “Super” charged! You are right, life is worth living, not sitting on the couch. (Which is why I watch tv from a treadmill!) A group of my friends and I have been exercising and using quotes from Smallville as inspiration. (I.e., “A man of tomorrow is forged by his battles today.†– Smallville’s Lex Luthor, Season 1, Episode 18, Drone) We like to say that we are going to “Small”ville! Your Chloe has provided so much of the inspiration that keeps us going.
Enjoy life! Get out and have fun! Looking forward to the season premiere this week.
Have a Super day!
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Hamilton Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 10:24 amHello Allison and you all!!
About the change you made on your site, i think it´s different and for me this is what´s matter. Anyway, i liked the other one and i like this one too, just missed that beauty music on it.
I liked a lot this week´s blog and for this reason I´d like to share with you an exeperience of my life about change. I lived with my parents in a safe, beauty and happy home. One year ago i decided to move to another city to try another life. I changed my city, my job, i met other friends… Well, i could not tell you this life is better or worse than my “safe” life with my parents. I just could tell you it was a great experience and i learned a lot of things. I discovered we can be close to our family and those people we love even being far away fisically from them.
Sorry for my english, it´s not very good. Soon i´m going to live a fews months on Canada to improve it. Canada is an economic choice for brazilians.
Cheers for you Allison, you seem an amazing person!!
Take care you all!!
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Simon_FoX Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 10:46 amHieeelowwwwww! My Girlzzz Allison! Change is Good! Im from PORTUGAL and like ur Job a lot!!! Life is to be Livin’ like la Vida Loca, OKayyyyyy?Recently i received a New Jersey girlzzzz and I’m so Excited about that!So i’m risking everything 2 get to know her…i dont care what my classrooms say!Whatever!!!I like her…i like the mostly american people! And U take care Allison I enjoy u so much, I like uuuu Girlzzzz.
Stay welll and i’m taking ur advise….welll i was taking that idea of Livin La Vida Loca…pero nunca es demas recordar!!!!
Te quiero mucho girlzzzzz
See Ya….Holazzzzzz.Ah and say Hiiii!!!! for my man Welling!!!!!!
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Deb Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 10:54 amAllison,
Your latest photos from Dana’s shoot were awesome and long over due. My favs are the ones that look most like the one you chose for your website. Wind blown hair shots and those bangs are fantastic. I love that better on you and I hope we can get some HQ larger photos of them available. The ones on your site are just way too small. We’d love to make desktop wallpaper from them. You’re awesome girl!
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Amz (Amy) Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 11:13 amhey Allison
love the new layout and pictures its different I like it.
ah Change has been such a big player in my life lately, espically since I started college a few weeks back and its one of the biggest changes educational wize, and Ive also broken up with my long term boyfriend, so yeah change can be very scary aswell as good, but you got to take the good with the bad I guess..
anyway thnx for the update =) looking foward to more..AmzxXx
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Tabby Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 11:23 amDavid, there’s no more login. This is now a blog-site. There wasn’t really a need for a login before, since there was no forum or anything.
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Paul Yan Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 11:30 amFirst off… love the change. Looks cleaner, fresher, and more in keeping with your upbeat energy and outlook.
Second, that pic of you to the side is great! You photograph way too well.
Third… nice to have your blog back up and to see that the line of “slickest blonde” can refer to you and your character… as such choices of quotes and thoughts show you to be more than just a gorgeous intellectual.
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No1nE_Special Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 11:32 amHello Allison,
I’m not much of a blogger but came across your blog during my “Smallville” google search and I’m glad I did. You have some inspirational words of wisdom it seems so I felt I must put in my 2 cents. Speaking of which, why is it a penny for your thoughts… but you have to put your 2 cents in? Somebody is making a penny. N E ways… here are two qoutes that has made a significant change in my life and enjoy sharing whenever possible. Enjoy!
“Success is the result of making good decisions.
Good decisions come from good judgement.
Good judgemet comes from experience.
Experience comes from bad judgement.”–Unknown
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“Knowing is not enough. We must apply. Willing is not enough. We must do.”
–Bruce Lee
Take care and much continued success!!
Aloha!
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Denea Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 12:01 pmHey!
I was so excited when I read this blog, because change is what my entire life has been about for the last year. I turned twenty-two this past August, so, as you can imagine, I’ve reached that point in my life where everything changes (especially my perspective). I notice changes in my thoughts and feelings from week to week. It’s exciting while also being scary and intimidating.
I propose this question… is everyone at least a little bit afraid of change? I have a tendency to be a very fickle person. When I get bored or unsatisfied with my life or some aspect of my life, I change it as quickly as possible. Most change doesn’t scare me, but it’s when I’m out of my comfort zone that I get a little uneasy. That’s pretty normal, right?
Small changes (like a new haircut, a new job, a new friend) are easy to adjust to and seemingly cause me no discomfort. However, I get extremely excited about major changes of lifestyle, and I have that anxious feeling that I have to get there right now and get started. All is well until I actually get there. That’s when the temporary panic sets in very quickly. Nothing around me seems familiar; therefore, everything around me is alien and terrifying. It doesn’t take long to get over that feeling, but as good as I know it is for me, it kind of sucks in the beginning. Will I ever get used to it?
Basically, I guess I have a love/hate relationship with change. It keeps my life interesting, but it can be hard as hell.Much love,
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Gabriela Angelini-Matthews Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 12:12 pmOf course Change is good… Life’s a Gamble… you need change to make Life fresh and new… Some times the sorrows in life is because one doesn’t take risks. You are young so it’s not too late
Allison, just be careful though… some changes are for the better and some aren’t… You will have to have a constant in your life… not saying Change isn’t necessary but it’s more exciting and you tend to learn more when there is a solid footing there… But you are right. Changes are good, and exciting, and one needs to take risks. Human development needs such excitement. You learn more through change… just… don’t change everything LOL. But anywho change in the most part is good Ciao bella
Gabriela
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Lydia Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 12:20 pmYou’re so right Allison.
To stop growing, is to stop living. There are ups and downs but it makes life even more worth living.
I look at my life as a work in progress every day. I’m taking new chances in my life. I’m just starting out my journey but I feel stronger and more alive than before. I want to live the best life I possible can.
These new photos are amazing. You are unbelievable gorgeous. Your look is so fresh and natural.
Thank you for inspiring me to embark on my own journey.
I send you a big hug.
Lydia
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Kyle Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 1:38 pmI like your website and the new format.
I can tell you’re very excited. Change can be a good thing or a bad thing depending on how its viewed; and I can tell by your blog you are elated and ready to embrace change. Its always good to break out of a “comfort shell” and proverbially mix things up.
Change and struggle add character. Life is stale without significant change; and whatever changes a person makes — be sure it will only make you stronger.
-da!
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Jennifer Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 1:39 pmI love the new layout and the new pictures of you are beautiful Allison,I love them.:) You alway’s write the most inspiring blogs. Your right when you say “Life is about moving,not sitting,sleeping,coasting,comforting! Failure,up and down,forward and back” Change is alway’s a good thing even though it can be scary at times. You can’t be afraid to move on and try new things. Life is too short for that. I wish you all the best. Take Care.
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titin Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 1:57 pm(i dont speak english, so, sorry if i dont write so well)
the changes in our lives give us spicy…
but, the really mean of our lives, is make a change in our arround…
todos los dias me pregunto… ¿que es lo que hice hoy para hacer que el mundo de los que me rodean sea magico?
giving hugs, smiles… and love to our brothers, we recive more than we give
there’s too many people who needs love and hopes…
happines to you and your friends…
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James Pate Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 2:09 pmI’m glad this change includes more photos. They look good!
I’m pumped for Thursday night at 8:00 on CW. In the meantime, I’ll watch the ABC Family episodes.
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RC Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 2:09 pmI have to say that my posting something on this site is change for me. Something so small can feel so big to different people, it’s all relative. Allison, I love the fact that you have this site and this blog, and that you are not afraid of being so open and honest about your life to anyone who just happens to come across it. It’s refreshing to see that some celebrities are comfortable (of course to a certain degree) with the public eye on them at all times, and that it seems you would like the public to know the truth about you instead of all the speculation that comes with your chosen profession. That takes courage, as does change, the topic of your blog today. It peaked my interest because you were talking about playing it safe in life, and I feel that many people do that because it is so much easier to live that way. But in the end, what is left? If you have not experienced life, then you have not really lived, have you? And living means taking risks. Life is the choice: Passion or Coincidence – that is the choice. Will you live life with passion and follow your heart into the wild and unknown? Or will you allow life to lead you and take what comes your way and merely be content? That is the true choice. When you are old and grey, sitting in your rocking chair on your stoop, what will you regret? Usually you will regret the things you did not do, the paths you did not take, the opportunities you let slip through your fingers – that’s it. People do regret things they have done, but on a whole, it is what we did not do that we regret even more. Playing it safe = regret. Thanks for the insperation, Allison. I am an aspiring writer, and those ideas about Passion or Coincidence actually come from a book I wrote years ago. I have since moved on and the book is doing nothing at the moment, because I am working on another that I have decided to publish independently. Talk about a risk! But it is my choice, one I have finally made because I know that when I am old and grey on my stoop, I don’t want to look back and wonder what might have been. Change is change, and it is experience – good or bad is not the point, the only point is that you are alive while you are doing it, and feeling it and experiencing it. I will be self-publishing my book by early next year, and I would love to send you a copy if it interests you. This book, too, is about life, and living it to the fullest, and not being afraid to take risks, especially with your heart and passion. Take care, Allison.
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sarah Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 2:50 pmwow!!!
OMG……i luv the change!!!!
and the new photos!!!…you look so beautiful!!
really i luv the change and i think that the change give us the control in different moments xDwell i most say “adios”
see you in the next blog!!! xoxo
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michle Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 3:01 pmAllison-
You inspire me! Thanks for the words of wisdom, I will try to apply them to my daily life, I hope you do the same! Good luck with everything and dont get too stressed about your directing debut. We will love you no matter what! -
Cecy Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 3:43 pmHey Allison!
I´m a huge brazillian fan of yours!
congrats! Your site is beautiful! I loved the new coloring!
I think that more artists could be like you are. You´re always trying to get closer to your fans and I think this is AWSOME!
Thanks for share your dreams and thoughs here with us.
I think that in life we have to change million times. And that´s great because it´s changing that we grow up. And learn and make the person that we are ’til the next step.
I REALLY LOVED YOUR NEW PHOTOS! YOU LOOK SO BEAUTIFUL!
I would love if you share more with us! ;D
Thanks again for posting; I love you!Cecy
PS: tomorrow begins season 7 smallville! I’m excited; I really admire your work in smallville as Chloe! Amazing job! Have a good season!
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taylor nikole Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 4:40 pmoh wow… thats so true..
not only in film..
but even your character on smallville..
or any character on there..
I think chloe has grown (changed) the most..
with strength.. and has learned to control her emotions a bit more
etc..
She’s so unpredictable and it makes the change EXCITING!
Not only in film.. but the most exciting parts of my life have been..
when change occured… good change..
not always bad change.. but many good things come from bad things..
falling on your face.. you learn from your mistakes..
what doesn’t kill you.. only makes you stonger right?
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dani Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 5:04 pmVery nice layout and the pictures are beautiful. I also love the new blog subject. I’m being a bit indecisive about my career right now and I think reading this entry helped.
Thanks!
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Knight Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 5:46 pmI think “change†for me when I was in my twenties was fun (woohoo).
In my thirties, it was upsetting because all I wanted was stability in the everyday things. It was never mundane, always demanding and hectic. Everyday was eventful in the life of a mother, wife, career woman, and housekeeper etc. Looking back, I was everyone’s bitch…ooops… I mean everyone’s Superwoman (yeah right, where is that damn cape now…it’s three sizes to small to squeeze into). I was pulled ten different ways, it was seriously challenging.
In my early forties, “change†just scared me; I never received it well at this stage. It stressed me out and caused all sorts of ailments. Now in my late forties all I say is “screw changeâ€, I want consistency; comfort and enjoyment because apparently, it all goes downhill from here and I’m just hanging on to keep up.
Its true, youth is wasted on the young because if I knew then what I know now, I would have rocked it harder it in my twenties. I guess hindsight is twenty-twenty depending on your point of reference.
So… enjoy it Allison while you are in your twenties. Be flexible and go with the flow because later in life your point of reference will change. “Change†may not look the same in those latter years. Actually, “change” for me now in the mirror looks like crow’s feet, love handles (more like handrails), a few whiskers and a cape that now is used to dust. Peace Knight
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luigi Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 6:08 pmCongratulations Allison,
Time of the winds of change in your life……….good luck with your changes !!!!!
From Uruguay
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luigi Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 6:27 pmHey Allison ….brilliant !!!!!
Clicking on my user name here, you can access to my web site on myspace !!!well, here I say: welcome for everyone…
if you visit my site:
Welcome to my Dark side of the Moon.!!!
Regards
stay cool
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lee Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 7:25 pmHi Allison,
I think you are getting even more beautiful if that is even possible. Loved the interview.
And your new set up for your web site is great. It makes our writing look much better than it did with the old format. Any improvement in the appearence of my writing is greatly appreciated. I am excited about the new season of Smalleville. Can’t wait, got the Tivo all warmed up and ready to go!
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Melissa Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 9:02 pmThe site looks amazing… I love this new layout and the new photos of you are beautiful! OMG I was so excited to see them… I have to agree change is always a good thing, keeps things fresh, and interesting… Cant wait to see what you give us this year Allison, looking forward to watching you shine on TV!
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Simon Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 9:18 pmI admit I’m behind on my Smallville, I had to Google `Noir` to find out what you meant, sorry. I am, however, buying the box sets as they appear, which is why I`m behind.
I miss the music from your last site. I love the last recommended track you had, from Madeleine Peyroux. I didn`t find her album on eMusic, but I found a track she worked on with Phil Roy, and found I like his music too, so I bought his album. So thanks for that!
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Rafe Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 9:28 pmHey Allison, I am glad you are changing. This is good! Wish I could do like you, but there are differences… Anyway, I am happy for you!
Oh, I remembered something. Like someone said before, I wonder if you really read these comments (after all, there are hundreds), or just write your ideas and go back…
We really like you! (ortherwise we would not be here…)
well, anyway… on your change, just don’t forget about us, ok?
Ciao for now!
Truly yours,
Rafe.
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RJChasez Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 9:39 pmThe new look of your site is gorgeous! I love it. And you look absolutely stunning in your new pictures. I can honestly say you’re one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen, probably in my entire life. I’m jealous, girl. lol
Recently, I’ve had a huge change in my life. It’s a hard change, something I never really considered would happen anytime soon, and it sucks. Really bad. I haven’t wanted to face it. I’ve just wanted to ignore it, and just pretend everything is the same, and just go on doing what I do every day. But I realize doing that is only going to hurt me. Other changes are coming up, ones I know that are going to be even harder, and I know I just can’t sit around and pretend everything’s going to be okay. Nothing will be okay, unless I get up and do things to make it okay. I know that.
Reading your blog today… it’s inspired me. It’s helped me realize that I have to do more to best adjust to this sucky change in my life. I hope I have the strength to do it. I think I will, if I focus and try hard enough. Thank you for being an inspiration to me, as you often are.
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Rafe Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 9:49 pmOh, I forgot! The site’s new look is wonderful! (Like the owner… rsrsrs)
Rafe.
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Magie Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 10:59 pmYay for !! I enjoy when I read blogs or notes with lots of exclmation points becuase it lets me know just how exicted the person is to be talking to me (or many others in this case)! Always good to know that people we love/admire are enjoying their life, makes it much easier to enjoy our own in a way. I am a huge fan of change, I am always doing little things to change up stuff in my life, from hair (it’s got pink highlights at the moment!), to dress and style, to my attitude. I am always in constant need of new and exciting things, I get bored so gosh darn easily!
Your new pictures are gorgeous, hope you continue to have the great time I can see you are already having!
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Malu Says:
September 26th, 2007 at 11:24 pmThe new layout is awesome and your new pics are wonderful.
You are more beautiful than ever
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meemalee Says:
September 27th, 2007 at 4:41 amHi Allison
The website looks wonderful – congratulations to you, Tabby and Chiruru
Re your quote “in movement there is life, and in change there is power”, I was wondering if you’ve been watching the news about the Saffron Revolution in Burma. These are peaceful protests by Buddhist monks and unarmed civilians made against the unelected military junta which has been oppressing the people of Burma for over 19 years. The Burmese government have retaliated by beating, shooting and killing these innocent people.
I would be very grateful if you could spare a moment to take a look.
Thanks again
meemalee
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Rebecca Says:
September 27th, 2007 at 5:13 amAllison,
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on change!
Change can be really hard, sometimes, but in others, it can be empowering and exciting.
I really love this part of that Cohen quote, “there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful”. How true that is!Struggle, indeed, is where we find the most exciting times of our lives because we can recognize and celebrate the good in the bad and it helps us appreciate when we DO have great times. If we never struggled, then we would never be able to see the triumphs.
The new layout looks great and those pictures are beautiful!
Looking forward to the Smallville premiere tonight and hope you are well
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SultanOfSix Says:
September 27th, 2007 at 6:19 amI will quote Muhammad Iqbal for you:
“Life is one and continuous. Man marches always onward to receive ever fresh illuminations from an Infinite Reality which ‘every moment appears in a new glory’ (Qur’an, 55:29). And the recipient of Divine illumination is not merely a passive recipient. Every act of a free ego creates a new situation, and thus offers further opportunities of creative unfolding.”
Peace.
P.S. I like your new pics!
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Luigi / shinefloyd Says:
September 27th, 2007 at 6:23 amAllison!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
mamma mia!!!!!, che bella foto di te c’e su questa paggina !!
Que bella foto tienes ahora en tu web site !!!!!
You have a beautiful pic here !!!!
Empezaron a soplar fuerte, los vientos de cambio en ti !!!!!
open your heart , your mind ………and enjoy this Wind of change !!!!!!Take the Universe Energy in your hands, and live a positive and happy life !!!
regards
from my Dark side of the Moon
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Stu Says:
September 27th, 2007 at 7:41 amLove the new look of the website. Nice to see it develop and adapt thanks for keeping us up to date.
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letia Says:
September 27th, 2007 at 10:33 amI love the new layout. The fresh new look is great. I also love the new photos. I really wish there were more photos of you out there.
On with the quote. The last bit of the second quote really hit me. “As our case is new, so we must think anew and act anew.”
I think often times people get hit with a problem and they treat each one exactly the same. Prime example the way our current government treats a problem. I won’t get in to the strict of details but not every thing deserves the same action. Our willingness change makes use stronger and wiser.
Great words of wisdom this week. Good luck tonight with the Smallville premiere.
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Tatiana Says:
September 27th, 2007 at 11:04 amHi Allison,
I totally agree with you… Change it’s very necessary, but sometime it’s very difficult too. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us.
I loved your new blog. Layout, pictures… You look so beautiful!!!
I wish you all the best!!!
Take care
Kisses
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September 27th, 2007 at 11:12 amI share your lament over late-onset-risk-importance-realization. I’m just a little older than you, and I too have only begun to understand the importance of risk-taking in the last couple years.
It’s far too easy to get mired in the practice of risk aversion, but as Mr. Cohen pointed out, your perception of risk depends on your definition of security.
I’ve found my tendency, after being risk-averse for so long, is to swing wildly in the opposite direction, with grandiose plans for sweeping life changes. Not only does that create a situation where I’m set up to fail when I can’t fully implement so much change, but it wears away at my drive to try it the next time.
I’m currently trying new guidance, where I effect just enough change to scare the crap out of myself, without taking such a huge leap that I’m destined to fail. The risk of failure still looms, but without the predetermined fact that I’ve established an unreachable goal. As I get more comfortable with the size of a change, I hope that, from exposure, I will become more used to risk, and gradually it will require taking bigger risks to still meet the scare-the-crap-out bar.
I enjoy Mark Twain quotes, because you can usually find one that compels and another that comforts.
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.â€
“I was seldom able to see an opportunity until it had ceased to be one.â€
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Emerson Medina Says:
September 27th, 2007 at 1:39 pmI like
peace
your fan from Amazon
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Maria Says:
September 27th, 2007 at 2:38 pmHey allison! I love your new pictures, you look beautiful!
I dont know how you do it allison, with every quote you put… the more it fits my life!!! I was just talking with my best friend about change. She was telling me at how I wouldnt take a chance and tell “someone” about how i feel and she told me that if im afraid to open the door ill never get to the next room! In other words, if im afraid to take risks ill never know what might have happen if i had taken the risk. Im trying to change that! Its just that you get so comfortable that you dont want to ruin the peace. THAT IS MY PROBLEM! I am so comfortable that i dont wanna change! but sometimes you have to take risks!! thank you allison! for showing me something new! LOL
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John L. Says:
September 27th, 2007 at 2:56 pmAllison,
Your new site is bright with the white background. Very nice!
I’m anxious for tonight’s episode and the Season Premiere of Smallville.
God’s blessings to you.
John L.
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Loren Says:
September 27th, 2007 at 4:23 pmHi Allison,
I really loved this change and your new pictures!! You look so beautiful!!
So, I totally agree with you,change is fundamental.Our life is in change every second!! It’s true.
Sometimes we have to take risk making this change to happen…a great change in our life!!
;D
I think so amazing you to share your thoughts.
Ah, about Smallville I looking forward to the season premiere but here,in Brazil, is just in November!! That’s great!!! hahahaha…I’m waiting for this. I’m a big fan of yours!!Well…Bye Allison
Kisses!!
Your blog is so amazing. I really loved and you’re very beautiful!!My English is pretty bad!! I’m still learning!!
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Melissa Says:
September 27th, 2007 at 4:51 pmHi Allison,you look more beautiful than ever,your blog changed and you also changed,I mean in you appearance,that’s great.You are so adorable Alli,you are a great actress,great person and a wonderful woman.You inspire me,and I think you also inspire everybody.You are an angel,Alli.I wish the best in your life and in your job,because you’re the best.Everybody loves you.Take care.Cuidate mucho,chau.Bye.
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Daniela Sandoval Says:
September 27th, 2007 at 5:35 pmhey Allison!!
i loved yout blog
is great this way =)i loved what you said, that reminds me something i saw
in a film…
one man told that life is like a football game seen it 2 hours later,
when you see it, you get exited or preocupated cause you want to see the team winning,
make a touchdown, but that have already happened 2 hours ago,
they have won the game, or they have lost it… but you are still really
preocupated and distressed.He said life is the same thing, we get so distressed about something
that we think could happend.
We have made that desicion,or we’ve made a mistake,
at the end it will happen, what makes the change is to believe that it have already happened.
I believe i have accomplish my dream.
I believe i am a filmaker.
I believe i have made a change.It has happened, but i can’t see it right now,
right now may be im seeing the “most exiting” part of my movie
the part of all the changes!!i wish you the best!!
what you do is amazing..
hope you could answer sometime =)
and the best for chloe this season xDDaniela., Monterrey, Mexico
pd. come to Monterrey someday!!!
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Mike Says:
September 27th, 2007 at 6:27 pmhey definitely looking forward to the premiere (less than two hours away). just wanted to say it’s been cool reading your blogs over the summer. you’re an extremely insightful person and an excellent writer… oh and you’re really hot. thought i’d add that in there…
lol… keep up the good work.
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David Harvey Says:
September 27th, 2007 at 7:29 pmChange is one of life’s few constants. Although we may believe we are settled into a consistant, everyday routine, life will surely surprise us by mixing things up when we least expect it. It is said that the Lord works in mysterious ways, I believe this to be so, just as I believe in the saying that if you want to make God laugh, tell him what you are going to do tomorrow. That is what makes life exciting, we never know exactly what tomorrow holds – so Don’t Throw Away Tomorrow!!!
Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts with us Allison.
Kind Regards.
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courtney Says:
September 27th, 2007 at 7:44 pmhey Allison
you look so beautiful in ur new photos
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Sandra Says:
September 27th, 2007 at 11:39 pmChange can be good and it can be bad. Sometimes its scary, but you just have to go with it…
Thanks for a wonderful premiere Allison! I love that you are now 4th in the credits as it should have been in the beginning. I just hope you stay on this show till the end, SV needs you! Chloe rocks!
Beautiful new look to the site and thanks for giving us new photos of you! Very much appreciated!
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Drew Says:
September 27th, 2007 at 11:55 pmI really like the new design, it’s a lot more cheerful and probably reflects your personality better. Keep on writing and updating your site because you have a lot of interesting and intriguing things to say. You’re also just like your character in terms of fine writing ability. Keep it up!
Oh, and change every once in a while is a very good thing. I like to keep things stable and well, but sometimes you just have to change it up, make things interesting, prove to yourself you’re not a robot.
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John Says:
September 28th, 2007 at 12:31 amthis entry kind of brings to mind my favorite quote ever.
“Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless — like water. Now you put water in a cup, it becomes the cup; You put water into a bottle it becomes the bottle; You put it into a teapot it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.â€
– Bruce LeeNow, where’s the music, Allison? You get me hooked on “Dance Me to the end of Love” and now it’s not there?
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Ardie Says:
September 28th, 2007 at 12:39 amI know exactly where you are at. I often find myself starting to get comfortable in how life is, and then I am constantly being pushed out of my comfort zone. My son, Ethan, just started Kindergarten, and how funny it is that something as simple as that makes me ponder life and it’s cycle. It was hard those first couple of days, realizing that this was a first step in his independence. How torn I’ve been, happy on one hand because he is venturing into the world to become his own person, but terribly sad for me because things will never be what they were. What I have to remind myself is that even though it won’t be what it was, it is going to still be amazing. Possibly even more amazing then I realize
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Will Says:
September 28th, 2007 at 12:42 amI agree, you can’t grow without change but Growth means change and change involves risk, stepping from the known to the unknown. This is what makes the human hold on to the only thing they know, scared to loose all.
But Change involves three things
First, a dissatisfaction with self-a felt void or need
Second, a decision to change-to fill the void, need and seek a opportunity to get out and
Third, a conscious dedication to the process of growth and change-the willful act of making the change Doing Something:
“The strongest principle of growth lies in human choiceâ€That’s where change start coz Growth demands a temporary surrender of security – taking the risk. All growth depends upon activity. There is no development physically or intellectually without effort, and effort means work.
The Bright side is that there are no great limits to growth because there are no limits of human intelligence, imagination, and wonder. Change is the end result of all true learning.
Coolest Quote I know about change from Brian Tracy and sums up the above mentioned:
“The more you seek security, the less of it you have. But the more you seek opportunity, the more likely it is that you will achieve the security that you desire.
Security can only be achieved through constant change, through discarding old ideas that have outlived their usefulness and adapting others to current facts.”So Allison, we love the new website, gives a new atmosphere to it and contributing to our fresh season Spring here in South Africa.
Great week to you Allison!!
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Sanna Says:
September 28th, 2007 at 3:31 amHi Allison!
Love your new site…a refreshing green “look” that goes so well with your wonderful green eyes! Nice work! So, my thoughts on the subject “change”. Well, I have to agree with Alan Cohen that change for me is the unknown. It´s sometimes difficult to take the step, to let yourself “go on”. We tend to get caught up with all that´s familiar and secure, like you said, and change might feel frightening and risky. One essential part of life is changing in who you are, what you belive in and what you want to become. I have been reflecting my own live so far now in my thirties and sometimes I feel that life has gone by as if I had been sleeping. Now I have the erge to do things I´ve dreamt about and thought of doing for so long. I don´t know why I haven´t been able to do all those things but I guess that I´ve been stuck in the moment too much to react. So, my advice for you is to do the things YOU want to do, no matter if they seem weird in the eyes of someone else. Live your life as its fullest with no regrets and what ifs. It took me thirty years to figure this out but rather late than never. Think anew and act anew, like Lincoln said!Happy thoughts and changes for the weekend!
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Tucker Says:
September 28th, 2007 at 3:36 amWow, your eyes are stunning.
I like the new layout. It’s open and attentive.
You know, it’s interesting that you talk about change right now. I am myself coming to a point where change will become my primary c-word instead of comfort. And it’s not even that my life is comfortable. In fact, it’s cracked. But I’ve just been too comfortable in remaining this way and lazy to change anything about it. Which then takes on its own form of comfort – heaven forbid I should take it upon myself to think of new things, discover new paths and new ways of living my life. No, no, it’s much more comfortable to remain cracked and numb. In a sense, lifeless.
I was zoning out to cable the other night and happened to catch the movie Serendipity with John Cusack, Kate Beckinsale and Jeremy Piven. It’s not a great movie by any means but it coasts by on the charms of Cusack, the likeability of Beckinsale, the audaciousness of Piven and some humorous turns by Molly Shannon and John Corbitt.
Anyway…. There’s a quote from the movie that I remember catching when I’d seen it a few years ago. Cusack’s and Piven’s characters have hopped on a plane to fly from New York to Berkeley, California, so that he can see if he’s meant to be with a woman he met briefly some number of years before. Cusack’s actually supposed to be at his bachelor party but he’s convinced his best friend to go along with this crazy scheme.
Piven turns to him on the plane and relates the first part of a quote from an ancient Greek text that really stuck with me. One that I think tires into the whole change and shaking up the comfort business. The whole quote is this:
“If you want to improve, be content to be thought foolish and stupid with regard to external things. Don’t wish to be thought to know anything; and even if you appear to be somebody important to others, distrust yourself. For, it is difficult to both keep your faculty of choice in a state conformable to nature, and at the same time acquire external things. But while you are careful about the one, you must of necessity neglect the other.”
- Epictetus, The Enchiridion
Piven’s character says this because he admires his friend for being a “jackass” enough to forget what anybody thinks and to forgo the comfort of his life and the plans he’s made to go after this passion, to go after something that could be the most meaningful and most altering thing in his life.
Now while the movie doesn’t stick with me aside from a few funny bits, the introduction to the quote does. It really does speak to change and getting out of your comfort zone. We’re too often influenced by outside things, the external, which deadens or numbs one of the really intrinsic values of humanity – our ability to adapt, to change, to grow. It’s exciting to rediscover that in yourself, isn’t it?
Thanks so much for sharing. Definitely struck the right chords at the right time.
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Iñigo Says:
September 28th, 2007 at 6:27 amHi Allison!!
Your new site is nice. I like it very much,I like you very much, and like to read the things you writte here.
Thanks for this blog.
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DavidHayes1956 Says:
September 28th, 2007 at 9:28 amHere’s another quote. “God doesn’t close a door without opening a window.” Should I take that to heart? The pilot episode of this season of “Smallville” represented a big change for me. A door closed. It has been swinging shut for a while now, but it finally shut and the door latch clicked. So, if a window opens up, should I jump out of it? Opinions?
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Jamal D Barr Says:
September 28th, 2007 at 9:44 amBecoming, I also seek to be.
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WENDY Says:
September 28th, 2007 at 10:08 amHey Allison!
I agree with you, the changes in our lives are those that make us enrich. Often we thought that if something is not known then is not safe and the truth is that, perhaps, if you waste the opportunity and do not take risks, you will never know if there were some benefits for you. In my opinion, fight with the fear of “being” is the important thing; the fear that often takes you to doubt what can be beneficial for you… but the question is: “ How can someone who is weak in feelings but strong in spirit can fight against the fear? â€â€¦ I have been investigating!!!!. Sometimes I used to long for someone or something that is no longer with me, and it makes me think that maybe changes is not what I am looking for, and againg I fall in a cycle of insecurity and doubt… jajajaja, Kind of confusing don’t you think! I think that you have a strong belief about take risks and look for changes, and you are right…those positive thoughts has given you strength, Allison you are filling with joy everyone who passes to your side… jejeje… if a person can do that being “Positive†then I believe that the answer to my question lies in the positiviness.
Jejejejeje, you are brilliant… follow your dreams and you will achieve them, fight for your beliefs and you will succeed over each obstacle…
Thanks… ah!, you look pretty in your new photos… kisses
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Bridget Says:
September 28th, 2007 at 10:18 amThats my opinion to Alison life is not about sitting around waiting for things to happen you have to get out there and take risks or else nothing change.I’m slowly making change to my life to and things are getting different bit by bit but i like it you know it’s all just a part of living.And if you want to get excited then go right ahead.hope to hear more of you’re blogs soon
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Paul V Says:
September 28th, 2007 at 11:23 amI am from the other side of change that you come from, Allison.
Growing up, my life was constantly changing. My family (me, sister, and mom) moved way too often. We never stayed in the same place for more than a year. This meant going to a new school, starting all over again to make friends (and unfortunately, bullies).
My mom being the true Libra would look for the smallest thing to go wrong (job, neighborhood, etc) and would use it as an excuse to move us yet again.
Change has its price. Stability (physically and mentally) does have its rewards: long lasting friendships, security, familiarity.
I have lived in San Francisco for over 8 years now. People in other cities watch the leaves change over the years like I watch the tourists change over the years.
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Tasha Says:
September 28th, 2007 at 12:57 pmhey allison
love the site its is totally wicked, i love change personally because it gives you a chance to expeirence new things. i agree totally to ur comment about wots the point of leaving if your not going o fail constanly its the whole point of living. have fun changing
luv tashaP.S always be happy MONKEY!!!!!
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Lauren Says:
September 28th, 2007 at 2:01 pmAllison,
I just wanted to let you know that you are an amazing person. You are an amazing actress as well. I look forward to Smallville just as I have for the past 7 years, just to watch you grow not only as an actor but as a person. I have learned so much from you just by watching the show. I have grown in my own life with your help and even though you dont know me and I know you will probably never get the chance but I just wanted you to know how much you have impacted me and my life not only as a SUPER HUGE fan but also as a person. Thank you so much.
I look forward to reading your blogs and all your poems that relate to me almost all the time.
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Tramont Says:
September 28th, 2007 at 2:26 pmHi Allison!
How are you doing? It’s great to hear from you again…!
I have to say I’m really disappointed with the new site’s style…. I couldn’t find the “log in” link, that’s why I’m answering without being logged! So please, somebody who send me an e-mail telling me where it is!!!Now about your comment of the week… Everything was said, lol, Life is about changing, so as we can enrich our lives and enjoy every moment on it. But, of course, we have to control those changes in order not to become what we don’t want to be.
I want to share my “big change” with you and everyone else: I’m only 15, so I’m not used to take important decisions in order to “CHANGE”… But last year, I decided to change from school: I went to the same school all my life, 10 years with the same great people, neighbourhood, house, etc. I was so accustomed to my common life that I realised I was needing a change, so I decided to change from school. I found myself in a new world: a new school, new people, etc., but I realised how great this new world was.
I think that in one’s life the decisions we take are the ones who would or not generate a change. It’s our duty or mission to take those decisions in order to enjoy the change….I don’t know if I explained myself, I hope so…lol
Allison, keep sharing your thoughts with us! I’m leaving now
Take care and have a good weekBye!
Please somebody who remember to send my an e-mail with where to find the “log in” link. Thanks!
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Jo Says:
September 28th, 2007 at 3:28 pmHello from England!
I totally agree with that qoute, “in movement there is life and in change there is power”. So often I struggle to change, I’m happy and safe in my own little world, a few months ago I was in an environment I knew and had friends i could rely on, however recently everything’s changed as all my friends have gone off to uni?!?!?!?!?! argh! And I’m left behind for a year! Although I didn’t at first see the good side (they got in to Uni… I didn’t…) I now know that the change was good. I now have a year to mature, to become more independant and ready to leave home, i’m not sure i’d have coped if i had’ve actually gone this year. This change has brought power becuase I have a chance to learn and explore, to distance myself from old friends, and to make new friends. I now know that this year will be great! Sorry to babble!
Since everyone else seems to be commenting you on your new site, I think I better join in and say it’s fab! I love the colour scheme, and your pics are great!
Keep up the awesome work in Smallville, its a bum in England though as we’re only half way through the sixth series… so I know what’ll happen becuase of all the spoilers on the internet! Nevermind though, the storyline sounds brill!
Nice to hear that you enjoyed your time in London, I hope the weather was good, as it usually isn’t over here… we’ve had an awful summer!
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luigi Says:
September 28th, 2007 at 3:32 pmHi allison,
I take some words that my friends comments on my space…..
and I send to you these words…….
I hope you like these words…“Let your life lightly dance on the edges
of time like dew on the tip of a leaf”.
–rabindranath tagore–“The bird of paradise alights only upon the hand that does not grasp”.
–john berryNow some words in spanish
I hope…. you understand some words in spanish…Cuando un hombre entra al camino del guerrero se hace conciente,
en una forma gradual,
que la vida ordinaria ha sido dejada atras para siempre.
Las cosas del mundo cotidiano pierden importacia para el y debe asumir una nueva forma de vida si quiere sobrevivir…
Don Juan MatusI like so much your new pic here !!!
En esta foto ya no pareces una niña, ya se nota un
cambio profundo en ti.It’s alright your change, but not loose totally your old personality!!!!!
Don’t loose your nature…….Regards from Uruguay
stay cool
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DavidHayes1956 Says:
September 28th, 2007 at 4:35 pmAllison,
I just wanted to say that you were brilliant as always in the 7th season premiere. You see? Some things never change … and shouldn’t. Hopefully our appreciation of what you do for us won’t change either. Here’s wishing that we never take you for granted. I hope I’m speaking for everyone here.
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Tatiana Says:
September 28th, 2007 at 7:38 pmYeeeeaaaaa!!!!!!!! The new season has started!!!! Seeing Chloe alive was great. I’m so excited!!!
“Why am I in a morgue?” great line!
Take care!!!
Bye!Tatiana
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Carlos Eduardo Says:
September 29th, 2007 at 12:51 amHi Allison! I share your impression about this site, the first design looked very well, I loved its simplicity, richness of space and content, and of course the color green which is one of my favourite colours. Yesterday, when I saw the new design, I thought “What a great job of design has been done on this place!, It looks modern, like a magazine or a fashion web site.” Your blog is on the cutting edge, has branded a before and after on everything related to blogs. Congratulations to the designer!
I like your new photo session, you look more than precious. You don’t have nothing to envy to the models who appear on the most magnificent catalogs, because your beauty exceeds the limit of estetic, it’s something that goes out of the image and reaches new and wondrous perceptions. My favourites are the two photos where you’re using a hairband, they’re enigmatic and interesting; and the two photos where you’re using green dresses. I really love the green colour because it symbolises hope. In short, all of your photos are beautiful, but there is one that really impressed me. It’s the one where you appear with a light violet dress, smiling straightly to the camera, that’s art!
Your emotion has gone out of the my LCD’s screen, it’s great to see someone motivated! Yes!, hold on to that feeling, beat up all of the defiances that life will put on your way.
In my case, when there’s something that I’m afraid to face, I tend to remember the past and the way I felt when I used to let the things pass by. That’s the moment when my longs for building a great present push me the whole day to throw me to the risk. The aftermath is a pleasant sensation; I feel powerful to change my world and ready for taking the next goal. I suppose that’s the idea of living. So never, never let your dreams pass by, remember that we can do everything. I heard this in some place: “I prefer to suffer and to have lived, than to suffer and not to live”.
Bye Alli
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hugesmallvillefan Says:
September 29th, 2007 at 4:16 amHi Allison,
I don’t know why but i can’t login. i think change is great. you’re right, we should take risks. life is about failure and learning from failure. if we didn’t learn from failure we would always make the same mistakes. srry i haven’t had time to respond earlier, i’ve had homework.loved the season premiere. you were great.
can’t wait for next blog.
hugesmallvillefan (craig)
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jediprincess Says:
September 29th, 2007 at 5:25 amSo, speaking of change, Allison, will this lead to future acting endeavors, or is your heart leading you to a different avenue? From reading your blogs, I feel like I have a better sense of who Allison Mack is, and I believe that you can succeed in just about anything you work towards. The reason? You have a strong will and you put a lot of thought into things. Those are 2 positives that can get you anywhere in life with hard work. Hard work, although important, alone just won’t cut it (my opinion).
BTW, Smallville season 7 premiere….FREAKING AWESOME!!!!
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Conte Says:
September 29th, 2007 at 6:22 amCiao Allison,
one day i’d like to meet you and talk with you! i like your character Chloe Sullivan in Smallville, and i’ve found an old movie in which you get a part…do you remember? A little girl…so…? Academy Police 6!! anyway, you are fantastic for me, and i’d like really to chat or meet one day! bye
Simone Conterno
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vanyi Says:
September 29th, 2007 at 11:47 amhello!!! I so happy you are not afraid of changes….
I’m a really scary person in life… and you know changes are not bad at all… but they make me feel unconfortable at first and then I just give up… what stupid of me… isn’t it???I love the new look of the page is I don’t know… like a season premiere….;)
good luck Allison…. in everything you want to do…..
best wishes…
Ciao
vanyi-k
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joey Says:
September 29th, 2007 at 1:06 pmchange is good
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MissLane Says:
September 29th, 2007 at 1:07 pmHey Allison!!!
I love reading your words and see how you are changing blog by blog.Changes is a hard word, hard to life, hard to embrace it.
However is the best thing in your life, because you can check the good and bad things you have done and how you can overcome every trouble, every thought, every experience with this amazing change.All of us are changing day by day, or experience by experience.
I’ve lived a three changes in my own life.
I used to be a shy girl, good friend, good daughther and sister.. everyone abused my trust and I suffered a lot. I said enough and I changed.
A lot of things happened to me and another change came into my life.
And the last one was for one year ago…
Now I am better person than before, more secure of myself and I think that anyone can hurt me now.
i amvery proud of that now, because when I check my past I realize the way I have to see the life now, and I am very proud of it.So, I am very happy you feel changes for good.
i am very proud of you too!!!!!!!keep on this way Allison, I liked you could see the same way I see you!! and I am sure that you’d suprise about it!!
You are an amazing / wonderful person!!
BECAUSE EVEN YOU LIVE CHANGES IN YOUR LIFE, THE ESSENCE NEVER CHANGES AND IT’S WHAT MAKES YOU BEAUTIFUL ALLISON!!!MISSLANE
Ps. oh my goddess!! you look totally sexy on the photos!!! (uuhh) hehehe… I hope to see more photos soon!!! it’s good for my sight heheheheheh
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Italo Giovani Says:
September 29th, 2007 at 4:00 pmHi Allison. I Just saw the Bizarro episode. You were simply amazing.
Thanks.Italo Giovani
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luigi Says:
September 29th, 2007 at 4:27 pmHi DAVIDHAYES1956, greetings from Uruguay !!!
yes !! you speak for everyone here…
I hope everyone take any words and any comment here…
for everyone!!!!
Allison don’t create this blog only for Allison!!
Allison have a great heart, and she think not only in Allison when she post any blog here…
Any blog here is a pleasure for all peoples….Regards
David: have you a great weekend!!
sorry, I speak only basic english…
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Anais Says:
September 29th, 2007 at 5:23 pmits so nice to hear from someone else how i feel! i totally agree allison change is good. and i guess where you’re going at is a life of never ending dreams. and not only leaving it as dreams but accomplishments that you will one day look back on. keep you’re life in a constant reminder that you shouldn’t have to settle with what you have right now at this one second in time but for something that might seem unreachable. because that feeling of reaching that impossible is worth leaving your comfort zone for.
i love your new website by the way.
smallville’s new season is starting off awesome by the way =) i’m so glad you resurrected from the dead XD it wouldnt have been the same without chloe in it lol
take care and try to take a second and breathe all those great and wonderful moments of your life so they can last even longer
your new blog commenter but no so new fan,
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BOUROUX Says:
September 29th, 2007 at 10:57 pmHi Allison.
I love your new photos, you look so beautiful and natural.
Your site has changed! I love it!
Thanks for a wonderful premiere Allison! I love that you are now 4th in the credits as it should have been in the beginning. Your performance was fabulous. During the panic scene at the morgue I cried of joy. I was touched by your great sensitivity in the other scenes. Your great sensitivity is like a super capacity. You must control it.
I am happy that you consider the change in a positive way. Each person has a different capacity to accept the changes and these capacity change with the time and lived. Don’t blame you for the past.
”I want to be as full and rich and… and exciting as possible and if I really want to attain this goal I need to stretch. I need to change. ”
All the televiewers of Smallville appreciate your talents of actress and your personality. With new roles, more people will see you and more people will love you.
Take care of you and thanks for the blog.Claude.
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Alice Says:
September 29th, 2007 at 11:48 pmI agree that life is a journey not a dstination, and that change is therefore an intricate part of the *journey*! Allison, the pictures are so beautiful and your blogs so well written! Thank you for inspiring us with your beautiful writing and your amazing acting!
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Rina Says:
September 30th, 2007 at 12:06 amHey Allison,
Very intresting blog once again. I just love your outlook on life. The new photos are great and I love the new layout. Look forward to your next blogRina
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yellowbee Says:
September 30th, 2007 at 10:24 amI can’t believe this: a star with a public blog!! You’re incredible, I’m right when I say that you and Michael Rosenboum are Smallville’s heart– why don’t you suggest him to do the same with his site? It could be cool!
Anyway. Changing, yeah. It generally overwaves me, and I desire it yet. I use to be a sunny person, I like life an colors and so on; but, really, changing scares me, I can’t explain.
Nevertheless, at the moment I’m working to change again, to– to revive: it seems to be the right moment. Not easy, but necessary. I read your words and thought: what was I doing with my life? Why do I already feel so old? I’m just 29…
So, you’ve given me more enthusiasm and force to change, thanks!
(And sorry for my not perfect english: I’m just Italian )
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Joy Says:
September 30th, 2007 at 10:27 amChange…grrrr…I hate change. It usually scares me like none other. I haven’t had good experiences with change though, which could be a reason why I don’t want/like it. But after what you said, I’m almost welcoming it.
I just want to thank you sooo much for what you say. It may not seem like that big of a deal to you, but you really leave a dent in the things that you say. It makes me think, makes me change, and makes me do thing I would have never thought about doing. So, Thank You. You have trully made a difference in my life.
Aside from those things, I saw the premiere. Wonderful! You did fantastic! So many people have been talking about your incredible acting, along with Tom’s as well. We are all really excited to see you this season. Did that sound weird?
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Diogo Monte-Mór Says:
September 30th, 2007 at 1:25 pmI really don’t know exactly why I’m commenting. It’s the first time I’ve seen the blog. I dunno, maybe it’s just ’cause Alisson is so cute and looks so sweet and warm and friendly. I have sort of a crush on her, hence my rushing to the TV everytime Smallville is on. Damn, if I was Clark Kent, Lana wouldn’t stand a chance against Chloe.
Well, hopefully Alisson’ll read this: you’re awesome. Keep up the good work, I’m sure we’ll see a lot more of you. Here, in Brazil, you have a few fans. One, at least.
Good job, keep it up.
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Sims Says:
September 30th, 2007 at 2:02 pmSometimes, it’s difficult to leave the comfort for the unknown… But I agree, and I hope that I’ll be soon as brave and curious as you actually are =)
(I love what you’re doing, btw,and Chloe is such a great character! I mean, you made her a great character.)
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Kally Says:
September 30th, 2007 at 2:57 pmI posted earlier, but I have since digested your original post. You know, I am proud of you in your desire to change. I realize that I am about to go through some of the biggest changes in life of my own. Your enthusiasm encourages me. At a time in my life when I should be totally comfortable and enjoying the fruits of my labors, I yearn for change – mentally, physically, and career-wise. Mentally, I am going through a little bit of that middle-age crisis. I won’t go there. Physically, I am about 20 pounds overweight. I am planning to shed it. (Smallville provides my inspiration.) I recently got braces and I am having reconstructive surgery on my mouth in a few months. I plan to come out of this having a lot more self-confidence than I have now. Career-wise, I am at a mid-point in my career, however, I would love more than anything to develop a free-lance career in photography, videography, or website development. I have made strides in that area. Soooo… Life is about change. It is about not giving up at any age. I only share this so you’ll know that even if you change now, you may still go through many changes in life – even when you are “supposed” to be at that comfortable stage in life.
Best to you! LOVED the Season Premiere! Stay Super!
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Krystal Says:
September 30th, 2007 at 5:42 pmAllison! Hello! So the following is what came out of my brain as a result of thinking on things that you have shared. It is amazing (and I use that word a lot) how familiar each individual’s life journey can feel even compared to your own. This is about me changing but changing the right way. I guess? =)
Anything produced in haste is generally not anything produced of worth. I think that is a statement that most reasonable people would agree with. I mean, my college clarinet professor, D. Ray McClellan, use to say of practice time “Haste makes waste!†That was his way of encouraging us not to just put in time in the practice room to merely have minutes logged, but to actually put something behind those minutes. Put something into those minutes so that when there was a finished product to be shared, whether in the weekly lesson or on stage for an audience to hear, what was to be shared would be truly artistic. He wanted nothing more than for our efforts to no longer be heard, but for the music that was intended by its composer to come alive and take captive the audience. So if I learned that lesson from dear Dr. McClellan, why is it that I constantly expect of myself brilliance on demand? I expect that I should constantly be full of genius and creativity. I expect that I should ooze entertainment and intelligence. I feel like I should be the “One†that is noticed and has it all figured out. I expect nothing less from myself than constant perfection in all areas of talent, intellect, bravery, organization, creativity, intensity, insight, stability, beauty, etc. Why do I demand this all of someone who is only 25 years old? I would not ask it of he who is 65, 75, 85 and so forth. I realize that the things that make people beautiful include those things in which they perhaps perpetually struggle to embrace successfully. I read a quote recently and it made me stop and think. I cannot remember who to give credit to for this quote or even exactly how it went but the words went something like this:
“Man is the only creature who refuses to be what he is.†-Albert Camus
Ok, so I looked it up to give the guy his proper dues. Those words just hit hit me. Think about how awesomely accurate that statement rings true. I mean, you don’t see the honey bees giving up on pollination and trying to be more like the catfish who scavengers the floor of its watery home, do ya? Yet we never seem to be content to be just who God made us to be. It is such a fine line isn’t it? I mean, I don’t think that this quote is meant to say, yeah, you are who you are, inadequacies and all. So let’s just never try to be any better. I don’t agree with that even remotely. I think that what is so amazing about the honey bee being the honey bee is that he knows who he is and who he is not and then he takes who he is and does it with all of his heart. Have you ever watched bees at work? They are relentless and amazing. Their work efforts are tiresome to the onlooker. They do the same things over and over again but have what they do down to a systematic work of art. Did that sound like and oxymoron? Maybe that is what the person meant when they said “Find out who you are and do it on purpose†or something like that. Maybe I need to focus on finding out the essence of Krystal and honing in on being the unique creature that God created when he created her. Instead of trying to make Krystal perfect at being Everybody. Hmmm?
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Mandi Says:
September 30th, 2007 at 7:28 pmI just happened across the website here and I am very impressed. Not only with the site itself but with the content. I was surprised that it was written by the actress herself. Sound a bit pessimistic? Yes I suppose. But it is very refreshing to see that not all of the young actresses and celebrities out there today are such horrific role models for their younger fans. It’s good to see that there are celebs that are ‘real people’ with real concerns and feelings and doubts. Celebs that are not running around flashing their ‘naughty bits’ to the cameras because they use the bad judgement not to wear undies with short short skirts. Celebs that aren’t being arrested for drug possession and DUI charges all the time. Or shaving their heads publicly after having a break down.
I’ve always said that I don’t get it. They have great jobs, doing something they love, leaving a mark in history, and getting paid well to do it. Why are they whining all the time? Your sentiments echoed that and it’s good to see that I’m not the only one to think that way. As a single mother who works a full time job and a part time job just to make ends meet it makes me so angry to see the Parises and Lindseys and Brittanys of the world boo hooing over their lives while they wear their designer clothes and get their 2,000 dollar pedicures and drive their luxury cars and live in their lush mansions. They should take a page out of your book and realize that life is what you make it. I’m so glad to see such a bright, talented, and positive young lady out there that has her head on straight. Kudos to you Allison. Keep up the great work and I hope to see you and your cast mates in more projects.
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Marissa Says:
September 30th, 2007 at 8:52 pmDear Allison Mack,
I first fell in love with you watching Smallville. I have since added your blog to my bookmarked tabs and read it whenever i can, however this is my first time commenting.
To be honest, i am a big chloe/clark shipper. :] And that’s actually how i found your blog. Since then i’ve only fallen more in love with you and the way you view the world. It is so refreshing to know that there are still actors/actresses out there who havent lost perspective of what’s important to them and let all the fame get to their head. I’m not beginning to assume i know more about you then what you write on here, and i
believe we can all be guilty of a little materialism, etc, but the voice that comes out when you write leads me to believe you’re not one of those actors/actresses who loves the fame and fortune more than the art. You seem truly passionate about what you do and i hope that someday i can work in a profession that i’m passionate about. You are truly an inspiration to me and many others, as is profoundly apparent from your other comments. And every blog is filled with thoughts that i can relate to so well that i’m sure i, as well as others, have begun to feel quite close to you even if we’ve never been within a 1,000 miles of you. I wish you the best in life and hope that if you haven’t already you can reach your dreams and far beyond.And with that i will leave you with my favorite quote, from the poem Song of Myself by Walt Whitman:
I celebrate myself,
And what i assume you shall assume,
For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you.Marissa Vinberg
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Marissa Says:
September 30th, 2007 at 9:01 pmAlso, you are so right about just going through the motions because we think it’s more comfortable. I’m going through a time in my life where i dont quite know where i fit in. I’m a science nerd, but i like fashion, however i am not that confident in my appearance and therefore dont always wear what i may want because i think i’ll either be looked at weirdly, or at all. I have a hard time dealing with all the attention, and reading your blog, i feel as though i could have written a lot of it myself. You are so brave to be in an industry where your every move is watched and where you have to have the confidence to get out in front of crowds of people. I’ll try and remember this blog from now on so that i dont just stick with the “comfortable.” In order to find me, i need to be confident enough to break through the barriers that hold me now. You truly are amazing. Thank you for being so open with us.
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abdulrahman Says:
September 30th, 2007 at 9:19 pmHi Allison.
iam your biggest Fan in ( Saudi Arabia )
I love your Character in Smallville, you look so beautiful and natural
My Only Wish is to Have a signed photograph of you PLSSS.
Can You Send Me One please please please pleaseOOOXXX
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Stephanie Says:
October 1st, 2007 at 2:56 amLove the new site, and your photos look absolutly amazing!
Loved you in Bizarro .. You made me cry though ..
Hope te power to be is done with killing chloe now, three times is enough.
Dont you think
I love you, your amazing
untill the next post!
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Melissa Says:
October 1st, 2007 at 8:03 amI agree we have to be willing to take action if there is something we want because if we just sit there and dream, almost 100% of the time we will never get what we are dreaming about. It’s like my mom always use to say when I was putting off doing a chore, ” Those dishes won’t wash themselves “. LMBO….She was right, if we don’t take action, things will never get done or take place. Once again, great blog !!!
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MissLily Says:
October 1st, 2007 at 12:40 pmAllison, Change is great! You don’t ever want to be stuck in the same circle while everyone around you is off in their own ways always changing. Experiencing all the things that come from change is great for your life and learning.
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Alasdair Says:
October 1st, 2007 at 1:05 pmWOW!!!! what can I say!!! This blog says exactly! how I am feeling right now. I can recognize the need for change in life but can’t find the means to do it.
I love reading your blogs as they are so heart felt and real. Changing take A LOT of courage and is not an easy thing to do, I commend you in your efforts and hope all goes well!!!
The new layout is amazing btw… kudos to the webmaster!!Alasdair (Scotland)
I have put the link to my blog as the website option as this is where I try to make sence of where I am. If you have time please give it a wee read over (anyone) as the more people that comment and share ideas the more I feel that helps
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DavidHayes1956 Says:
October 2nd, 2007 at 10:55 amI must say that after reading all these comments, I was inspired to change … my underwear. Who knows, I might start changing on a regular basis!
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Sven Says:
October 2nd, 2007 at 4:40 pmHello Allison,
I really stumbled on your site ( sorry, for not searching you:), dunno how I came here ), but I took my time reading lots of your thoughts and feelings and I’ve to say I like the way you handle it.Okay, to respond to your topic “change” I agree with you if you write “life’s not sitting, sleeping, coasting, and comforting!”. I myself changed my whole life earlier this year, because I came to a point where I didn’t wanted be – I was mentally motionless, stuck. But I did it, changed almost everything. On the other hand, it was quite hard starting to change and though it was even harder leaving things and peeps behind… Without telling you my entire auto-biography the only thing I wanted to mention is that, if you wanna expierience change you have to be kinda ready for it – just stop negotiating with yourself and do it, now.
Hm…, am I a Chinese fortune cookie?Bye, Sven
Leipzig, Germany
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MissLily Says:
October 3rd, 2007 at 5:11 pmAlright Alli, i just had to comment you this.. i came across it today in my Honors English Class.. and as soon as i heard this quote i thought of you.
I really think you could reflect upon it.. “Some people die at 17, but don’t have their funeral till they are 77.” Bano
TTFN, Lily
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DavidHayes1956 Says:
October 3rd, 2007 at 7:33 pmI died when I was 7. Don’t know when the funeral will be. I have never been properly embalmed. Maybe that explains the smell.
What’s that old Irish blessing: “May you live as long as you want to and want to as long as you live.” ???
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Robbie Says:
October 4th, 2007 at 9:51 amHi Allison. I’ve only recently signed up to the site, but I love it. So much care and attention are put into its content, plenty to read and food for thought, and the new design is very sophisticated. Being a British viewer without access to satellite, digital or cable, I’m still years behind in Smallville, but am really enjoying your performances at the moment (Series 5, I think).
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Scott123 Says:
October 5th, 2007 at 10:41 amGreetings,
First, there is actually alot to be said for sitting, sleeping, coasting, and comforting. These things are good to have at the end of a journey. One needs these things to rest up and prepare for the next one. Although, adventure may not be such a good thing. A great French explorer ( who went up against shackleton for a race to the south pole) once said, “Adventure is what happens to the unprepared.” This is a call to understanding that there are hazards in the world, but they can be avoided with a little forethought. Change can shake you, even severely sometimes. But as I have said before, I can tell from your writing that you are in fact a woman of considerable courage. More than you know, I think.
On another note, I recently saw some photos of your friend, kristin, having some trouble at the airport. Boy, the paparazzi have no shame! They just kick your ass and there’s nothing you can do! My heart goes out to her, whoever the guy is (Mark?), I think he is an international contender for dumbass of the year. Tell her not to fret,
that on her journey, grander things await.
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natalia Says:
October 7th, 2007 at 12:33 pmHi Allison
How’s everything? I haven’t posted in a while. I’ve been studying a lot recently. I want to know that I’ve done my best when the exams begin. Geez! I’m getting all stressed out already and they’re only 3 weeks from now! I mean, loads can happen in 3 weeks, right? Lots of things can change!
Anyway, I’m just posting to tell you that I agree with you when you say that change is thrilling and exciting, but that doesn’t make it easier, in fact, that’s exactly what makes it difficult.
But difficult can be good, right? If everything was easy all the time it wouldn’t be worth living, would it?
Take care of yourselves everyone
Beijo,
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Milka from Brazil Says:
October 7th, 2007 at 4:53 pmHi Allison,
All I can say is changing is the most important thing in life, it’s a part of the human’s growth, ’cause everything is changing everyday in the world. Our body changes a little more each day, nature changes… So, I think we have to change our mind, our thoughts, our habits everytime it’s necessary! First, we have to change ourselves, and then, who knows, we may be able to change the world, for better of course! Changing is good, specially to our souls.
Allison, I want to say I’m a big, big fan of yours!
ps: Sorry, my english is not so good. I hope you can understand what i’m trying to say!
Beijossssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
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Alisson Luiz Says:
October 7th, 2007 at 8:27 pmHi, girl! ^^
Well… Our names is so seemed, aren’t they? But I’m a boy! Here in Brazil, this name is very common in boys! Actualy, more in boys, than girls!
hehe That’s the why I put my second name “Luiz”. I’m an admirer of your work! Since the first time that I saw Smallville. I searched about you sometimes! Generally pictures, ’cause, with all respect, you’re beautiful!
I always liked the characters like Chloe. A smart person who likes to search about truth, about something wrong (I don’t know how to say the english version to the brazilian expression “com a pulga atrás da orelha”, literally “with the flea behind the ear”).
About the post, what I have to say is that changings are “two edges knife”. It can be healthful, like when you are soffering and needs some peace, or can be bad, if you have a weak reason to do something different that what you would do. I allready had both sides of a changing. I turned myself a new person, but I lost my reason to do it! Anyway, in fact the change is a reallity. To change isn’t a sin, but to do it without a reason can bring something ackward. Just life’s experiences…
Anyway, here is beautiful like you!
That’s the 1st time that I’m putting a comment here, waiting like a simple mortal man that you will really read that, and eventually I would be very happy with it!
Like the girl of up comment, my english is a little limited, but I wish to improve that if I study out here. And I wish that you can understand what I put here too! And I wish the continuous success to you! I don’t wish so much, do I?! XD~
So… Kisses from a “brazilian Alisson”!
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MissLily Says:
October 7th, 2007 at 9:44 pmI’m back with another quote! Ha Ha! Curses this Honors English Class!! LOL… AND IT’S GANDHI!!
“Everything we do is futile, but we must do it anyway.” – Gandhi
^^ This is is BIG.
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IzzyJr Says:
October 8th, 2007 at 10:20 amGot to love the inevitable. It’s nice to see you accept change in such an excited manner. Not everyone does..The new look is nice. I have to admit it was a shock to the eyes when I came to check the site. I wasn’t expecting it to be so white.
Only 2 weeks late. Heh.
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Elen - Brasil Says:
October 8th, 2007 at 11:44 amHi Allison, how are you??
Once again I thought that I was reading something that I wrote or something that someone wrote especially for me! It was really incredible!
I’ve just got married (a big change) and next week I will start in a new job (an amazing challenge)!! I feel to prepared to face all of this!! In fact, I’m very excited, and it’s clear that it will be very good for my improvement as a human beign.
Kisses and have a nice week!!
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luigi / shinefloyd Says:
October 8th, 2007 at 12:41 pmhi there….
it’s not music here…?
please, would allison team add Madeleine Peyroux song here?hi allison…
in latin america ( tercer mundo )
we don’t have a smallvile 7 season…
we wait after november 7Uruguay , latin america 3erd word…..Paises subdesarrollados
ciao
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DavidHayes1956 Says:
October 10th, 2007 at 5:34 amQuestion: If change is so good, why are we still on this topic?
I just got a copy of “Unlikely Angel” in the mail yesterday. My step-son opened the box, saw what was in it and threw it aside somewhere. I have yet to find it. Maybe it would be easier to buy another copy. This made me think of another question for Allison but that topic is closed. I wonder what it was like working with Dolly Parton and Rick Moranis. Hmmm. Allison played Jenny Szalinski in “Honey ….” Reminds me of a book that I tried to get published “Passing for Polish for Personal Profit.”
A friend recommended a new book that is coming out that is supposed to make sense out of the various versions of Krypton and perhaps serve as the ultimate definition of Superman’s home world. The book is called “The Last Days of Krypton.” A review of the book said that Jor-El is prematurely white-haired like Brando is in the Superman film … but that he doesn’t mumble like Brando. Personally, I think they should keep the mumble. As soon as Jor-El storms out of the Planetary Council after trying to convince them that Krypton is about to explode, one of the councilmen turns to the councilman next to him and asks, “Did you understand anything that he said?” The other councilman answers, “Not a word! Jor-El may be a brilliant scientist, but he always sounds like his cheeks are stuffed with tissue paper!”
Did I change the topic? I guess I did! Maybe change can be good!
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DavidHayes1956 Says:
October 10th, 2007 at 2:11 pmYou learn something new every day! Today I learned that Mrs. Monk (Trudy) was, for a short time, Allison’s TV Mom. I also learned that Allison can sing and make donuts at the same time. And the best part is, being as old as I am, the new thing I learn tomorrow can be the same as the new thing that I learned today!
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candy1058 Says:
October 12th, 2007 at 12:22 amhi allison,
about change. everything is change in everyday, everyone is change too. yes, we need to learn and adapt to the new environment, the new situation, the new things. but, honest, most of people is afraid of change, just like me. we feel safe, comfort and everything seems to be under our control. and i know it will stand on my way if i don’t keep changing, but i’m still afraid. Come on! go ahead!
last, hope everthing is going well.
Candy
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Kal-El secort name Alexander Johnson Says:
October 15th, 2007 at 2:14 amHi Allison Mack how are you doing ? My name is Alexander but Alex for short I wantd to no if your got the birthday card i sent you it was of Godzillia and I hope you like the drawing i sent you to, I have another drawing on the way for u to keep. Quastion 1 How did u react to when you got the job to play as Chloe Sulloven for Smallville. 2 What bread is your dog and how is Phontom doig? 3 Do you like comics and if you do what kind would you like to collict?4 Are you exited that Clark/ Tom Welling is geting a cape in esepod 5 Action. 5 Is it true that you dont watch your slef from the esepods of Smallville because you do an exlleant job.6 If you dress for Holloween what person would u dress as? 7 Do you still do your chairty things.8 I am sending you another drawing of you for X-mess gifft is it ok that its a 22by24 size drawing of you. MIss Allison Mack I hope you have a fun and a safe Happy Holloween thats around the corner, I hope we can be firends if thats ok wiht you. Take Care Be Safe I am really exicetd to see you this week on Smallville hope you like it to.
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Matty / inLove_with_Chloe Says:
October 16th, 2007 at 6:06 amHi Allison,
wow, I am super late this time, but at least I haven’t missed any blog entries….. Hmmmm, change. Yeah, apparently I don’t like change. It took me a while to get used to the new design of your blog. I really liked the old one, I already miss it !!! Also, something weighs heavily on my soul, something that has to do with change, and the show you appear in, ‘Smallville’. I feel like I am cheating on you, hehe…..after years of loyal viewership I have stopped watching, now that S7 has started….. This has nothing to do with your performance, or any other actors, of course…… I simply disagree with most if not all decisions the writers/producers take, nowadays. I realized it’s easier for me if I stop watching altogether…… That’s sad of course, as I am deprived of my weekly dose of Allison Mack, which I got so used to, over the years…..
Thank god I can still come here to quench my thirst, to feed the monkey on my back, so to speak……
Yeah, some change that is.
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Kal-El secort name Alexander Johnson Says:
October 18th, 2007 at 1:01 amHi Allison Mack how are you doing ? What will you be doing for Halloween, I hope you have fun I no i will so you no I am 23. Wish I could work on the set wiht you guys on Smallville. I have a few more Quastions to ask if its ok. 1 Do read any of the smallville books that are out they are good to but I am more in to watching the TV show. 2 Are you excited that you will be working wiht Dean Cain former Superman? 3 Do you play an musickol insterment I hope i spelt it right because I play a few some times.4 I will be sending you an Halloween card in the mail on Thirsday I hope you will like it. Hope we can be firends if thats ok wiht u, have a terrfick Hallwoeen and be safe i hope its ok for me to say love you wiht my hart witch I do.if you have the time email me its mecool123002@yahoo.com
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Nov Says:
October 18th, 2007 at 10:03 pmThank-you. (!!!!!!!!)
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Leo Says:
October 21st, 2007 at 2:05 pmHola allison, la verdad como te habrà s dado cuenta no hablo ni escribo mucho inglès, sin embargo sòlo quiero que sepas que eres mi amor platónico, que me pareces unas Supergirl, que no me pierdo la serie de Smallville y que creo que tu belleza es incomparable, me encantas!!!. No se si algun dia podrà s leer estos reenglones pero quedo con la tranquilidad de escribirte y la esperanza de que tu me respondas… un Besote.
Super LEO
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Kenjiro Says:
October 24th, 2007 at 11:35 amHello there Allison. It’s just the second time I post a comment on your blog. But that’s not really important. What is important is that this last weekend I watched the 4th episode of Smallville (7th season) and…. my oh my, you really rocked! Seriously, congratulations on your outstanding job.
My wife cried when Chloe and Jimmy broke up. A very tense scene.
Once again, congratulations from two of your Brazilian fans.
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ANDRE LUIZ Says:
October 26th, 2007 at 8:17 pmHi Alisson! My name is Andre, I´m from Brazil and I watch you every day on tv (smallville). You are a big actress, and very beautiful too.
I´d like to say to many things, but my english is not good. So I just want you know: “JESUS LOVES YOU” (it´s not a joke). Bye… -
Magnit Says:
October 27th, 2007 at 11:36 amHello!!! That my first post on this blog… I’m verry happy, that i’m can tell you about my senses…
You are my favourite character in smallvile… I live in Kazakhstan, my English not the best, but I am very glad that can write you…
You very like me, and I would very like yet, that you continued in a that spirit…
“I watched the 4th episode of Smallville (7th season) and…. my oh my, you really rocked! Seriously, congratulations on your outstanding job.”
Fully agree with these words!!!If you will cut out a minute, and will send to me on e-mail, though anything, there will not be a limit my happiness!!!
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Magnit Says:
October 27th, 2007 at 11:50 amMy E-mail: magnit888@gmail.com
Pliiiiiz!!!! I will wait your mail!!!! Thank you that you are!! -
lee Says:
October 29th, 2007 at 10:32 amhello I’m a chinese boy
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lee Says:
October 29th, 2007 at 6:38 pmmy email: as_kiss@126.com
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KimberlyClaire Says:
October 31st, 2007 at 6:22 amI’m really a pessioptimist (I’m stuck in between)…but when I read your post, I was like:”yeah…change means making room for improvement.” Thanks so much for continuing to inspire people like me, or for short, you FANS…:) Allison rocks! So does, Amy Lee! (was that rude? You know, posting someone else’s name on another’s website? GO ALLISON!
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lee Says:
October 31st, 2007 at 7:43 pmIs not, I ‘m in China now, that am our country website.If you did not believe I also do not have the means, my English is very bad.It’s my E-MAIL.You know??I’m sorry!
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Hazera Forth Says:
November 5th, 2007 at 5:37 pmChange.
Well, you’ve stumped me on this one. At the moment, my life is quite hum-drum; no big changes, no news, no excitement, no special announcement to jump up and down about.
But this time last year. There was a lot of change, and a lot of new things to make decisions about, a lot of hurt and anger and not knowing why these things were happening to me so in a way, I can appreciate why some people don’t like change.
Without last year, I wouldn’t have made myself get out of my miserable job, or make the most of the time I had with my husband or my family. Without last year, and its abundance or change, I wouldn’t have learnt something about myself which is that I am a better leader in a team than I am a leader on my own.
Without last year, I wouldn’t have realised I could love any child regardless of what genes we have in common.
Without last year, I wouldn’t have put myself first for a change so that I can be a healthy, happy person, strong enough to help other people and be there for those less able.
I learnt that I was afraid of change because it meant having to do it all by myself because no matter who you’re with and how close you are to people, you will always have to answer to yourself.
So, without last year, I wouldn’t have had the time now to sit here and write on this blog or think about how lucky I am that I was able to get through all those horrible changes, accept them and move on. And I don’t mind that my life is humdrum or boring and that nothing much happens. I know that if change ever happens again, I can face it now.
This is for my friend Robert Stobonovich who tragically died in February 2007 after suffering from a period of mental illness and jumping in front of a train. He always had to deal with the ever-moving states within his mind, never ever knowing the boring, the hum-drum or just silence. He was 33 years old. He was married and left 3 step-children, 2 parents and a younger brother.
That’s the thing about change. Sometimes, it’s just not fair. But then, I think about people for whom change comes in sweeping, unpredictable ways like storms and famines.
Take a look at http://www.kiva.org – empower others by giving.
Allison, you do fantastic work for charity and you are a true inspiration. Great new look to the website and I am enjoying Season 7. I feel for Chloe, I just wish, that for once, the under-dog would win. I would love to see her win Clark, she is the only girl on Smallville who deserves a hero. Please don’t let her dreams die, she is meant to be the best reporter – she’s worked so hard!
I really like your photo gallery, by the way. I’m something of a photographer myself, having just come back from Venice and then the Lake District. You can catch my pics on Facebook (just look for my name). I use a Canon 400D – which I’ve only had about a year – I’m still used to traditional film but it’s a lot cheaper using digital, so I guess I am keeping up with technological change! Thinking about that, makes me realise that sometimes, some things should stay the same, society needs a foundation of some kind that people can rely on, to help them feel safe, cared for and that they can hand down to generations lest they forget who they are and where they came from?
Take care
Hazera Forth
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Todd Says:
November 10th, 2007 at 4:00 amHey Allison, good piece on change. I believe that your writing is deep and honest because you write plainly and with a certain commonality that I can easily identify with. Since I see some of my beliefs in what was written I want to share an inspiration of my own if I may. There is a speech by Henry Rollins unofficially called “Ember of Rage” that was shot in Israel, just Google it, that awakened a lot of inner emotion and inspired me to put forth more effort in each and every day that I live in my ever changing life. It is very much an emotional rollercoaster in that it starts off slow and ramps up into a very moving final plea. I hope this provides you with more inspiration in your efforts to embrace change and most obviously good luck to you.
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Marcel Says:
November 10th, 2007 at 4:38 amHm, it seems you have two fans named Marcel.
Great blogg entry and very much part of my Philosophy.
I do however too fall in to that “comfort” trap all too often.Live great!
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Tony Says:
November 14th, 2007 at 2:47 amHi beautiful Allison! Just wanted to mention something about your new website layout. Shortly after you made the transition, I viewed your site using WindowsXP. The browser was IE 6 I think. Anyway, the layout wasn’t correct. Columns that should have been to the right of the page were dropped down to the bottom. Something about your layout doesn’t seem to be cross-browser friendly. Just thought I’d mention it, maybe your web engineer can take a look.
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